The Seasonal Hidden Battle: Transforming Seasonal Blues into Winter Bliss

By Melody Wright, LMFT

As the seasons change, some of us might find our spirits taking a dip along with the temperature. For many, this shift ushers in the excitement of holidays, warm drinks, and snug evenings by the fire. But for some, this seasonal transformation brings with it a subtle yet profound change in mood – the onset of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Otherwise known as Seasonal Depression. 

Have you ever wondered why the season's magic doesn't quite reach everyone? Through the advocacy for mental health awareness, the term seasonal depression is becoming more prevalent. But what is seasonal depression? Why does it happen? Who does it affect? 

In this blog, we will dive into what seasonal depression is, who it affects, and ways to support yourself if you find yourself struggling.

Understanding Seasonal Depression 

Seasonal depression typically follows a pattern, with symptoms emerging and receding at the same time each year. The most common form of seasonal depression occurs during the fall and winter months when sunlight is in shorter supply. The primary culprit behind seasonal depression is believed to be reduced exposure to natural sunlight. Did you know sunlight plays a crucial role in regulating our circadian rhythm or internal body clock, as well as influencing the production of serotonin, which is a “feel good” hormone released by the brain? The winter months, with their shorter days and diminished sunlight, can disrupt this delicate balance, leading to a cascade of physiological and psychological effects.

So are there people who are more susceptible to Seasonal Depression? The answer is yes. Let's talk about it…

1. Location: If you live farther from the equator, where daylight duration varies more significantly between seasons, the more at risk you are to encounter season depression. 

2. Age and Gender: Seasonal depression can affect people of all ages, but it is more common in younger adults. Women, also, are diagnosed with seasonal depression more frequently than men.

3. Family History: If one of your family members has been diagnosed with depression or other mood disorders it may increase your susceptibility to seasonal depression.

4. Pre-existing Mental Health Conditions: If you have a history of other mental health conditions you may find your symptoms exacerbated during specific seasons like fall and winter.

10 Tips for Seasonal Depression Self-Support

When you are struggling with any type of depression, it can feel like an uphill battle. Implementing self-care practices are essential to coping, however, finding what works for you can be a challenge in itself. We want to help you alleviate the decision fatigue with these 10 tips. 

Light Therapy: Light therapy, also known as phototherapy, involves exposure to a bright light that mimics natural sunlight. It can help regulate circadian rhythms and boost mood. Spending 20-30 minutes in front of a light box each morning can be an effective way to combat seasonal depression. You can find light boxes sold on Amazon.

Regular Exercise: Engaging in regular physical activity has been shown to alleviate symptoms of depression. Exercise releases endorphins, the body's natural mood lifters, and helps improve overall well-being. Even a walk outdoors can make a significant difference.

Maximize Natural Light Exposure: Make a conscious effort to spend time outdoors during daylight hours. Open curtains and blinds to let natural light into your home or workspace. If you work at home try position yourself or work area near windows to maximize exposure to natural light.

Social Connection: Stay connected with friends and family. Seasonal depression can lead to social withdrawal, so make an effort to maintain social connections. Whether it's a phone call, video chat, or coffee with a friend, social support is vital for emotional well-being.

Mindfulness and Meditation: Practices such as mindfulness meditation, and deep breathing exercises can help reduce stress and improve mood. These techniques can be incorporated into daily routines to promote relaxation.

If you’re interested in learning more about this, you can download our free ebook, The Mind-Body ToolKit.

Establish a Consistent Sleep Routine: Maintain a regular sleep schedule by going to bed and waking up at the same time each day. Quality sleep is essential for mental health, and a consistent sleep routine can positively impact mood.

Implement a Daily Routine: Establishing a routine can provide structure and predictability which can counteract the internal chaos we might feel when in a depressive state. This tip is particularly crucial for those grappling with seasonal depression, as the changing seasons can disrupt the body's internal clock.

Set Realistic Goals: Break down tasks into smaller, more manageable goals. Setting realistic and achievable objectives can provide a sense of accomplishment and boost self-esteem, counteracting feelings of helplessness.

Express Yourself Creatively: Engage in activities that allow for self-expression and creativity, whether it's writing, drawing, painting, or playing a musical instrument. Creative outlets can serve as a therapeutic way to process emotions.

Professional Support: If seasonal depression is significantly impacting your daily life, consider seeking professional help. Having a therapist can provide guidance, support, and therapeutic interventions tailored to your specific needs. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and other evidence-based treatments can be effective in managing seasonal depression.

Final Thoughts

Seasonal depression is a complex interplay of biological, environmental, and psychological factors that can significantly impact your quality of life. Recognizing the signs and understanding who is at risk is the first step toward to managing your depression in a healthy way. By incorporating coping strategies, those affected by seasonal depression can navigate the changing seasons with resilience and improved mental well-being. If you are struggling with seasonal depression, seeking professional guidance can be a step forward to healing. Our therapists here at Life By Design Therapy can be a trusted guide, offering support tailored to your unique journey. Their empathetic understanding provides a safe space to unravel the complexities of seasonal blues, granting you the tools and insights needed to navigate the storm. If you would like to take that step CLICK HERE to schedule your free phone consultation. 

Additional Resources

**If you’re interested in expanding your knowledge on depression and how to support those that are depressed, check out these books below:

1. The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time by Alex Korb

2. Reasons to Stay Alive by Matt Haig

3. The Depression Cure: The 6-Step Program to Beat Depression without Drugs by Stephen S. Ilardi

4. Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression – and the Unexpected Solutions by Johann Hari

5. The Feeling Good Handbook by David D. Burns

6. The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion

7. Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl

8. It's Okay That You're Not Okay: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand by Megan Devine

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The Art of Understanding: Helping Your Partner Cope with Depression

By Melody Wright, LMFT

Depression can be a debilitating condition that affects not only the person who is struggling with it but also their loved ones. It can be especially challenging for couples, as depression can put a strain on the relationship and make it difficult to maintain intimacy and communication. As a partner, it can be tough to see someone you care about struggling with depression, and it's understandable to feel helpless and unsure of what to do to help. However, it's essential to remember that your support can make a significant difference in your partner's journey toward recovery. If your partner is struggling with depression, there are several things you can do to support them and strengthen your relationship. In this blog, we'll discuss some practical tips and compassionate approaches that can help you support your partner through their depression.

How To Support Your Partner Through Their Depression

1. Be There For Them: This seems simple but one of the most important things you can do for your partner is simply to be there for them. Listen to their concerns and offer them emotional support when they need it. This will let them know that you care about them and have their best interest.

2. Encourage Them to Seek Professional Help: Because depression is a mental health condition, it is important for your partner to seek professional help. Encourage them to talk to a mental health professional about their symptoms.

3. Help With Daily Tasks: Depression can be debilitating for many people, which can make it difficult for your partner to do everyday tasks like making a meal, doing the laundry, or even running to the grocery store. Helping perform these basic tasks can show your partner that you are a safe support system for them.

Supporting Yourself

The care of your loved one is probably at the forefront of your mind, however, we want to remind you that, as the support person, you need to take care of yourself as well. If you continually give of yourself without taking care of your own needs, you run the risk of becoming burnout. Some ways you can support yourself are:

1. Practice Self-Care: It can be difficult to support a partner who is struggling with depression, and it is important to take care of yourself. Make time for yourself by doing activities you enjoy such as exercise, meditation, or spending time with friends.

2. Be Patient: Depression is a chronic condition for some people, and it may take time for your partner to feel better. Be patient and supportive, and avoid putting pressure on them to "snap out of it" or "get over it."

3. Educate Yourself: Knowing the signs and symptoms of depression can help you have a better understanding of what your partner may be going through. It can be supportive, as well, to know the treatment options for when your partner is ready to seek additional support. 

4. Seek Support For Yourself: Meeting with a qualified clinician can provide you with a secure and unbiased space for coping with your own emotions around your partner's depression. They can also give you tools to utilize in your day-to-day life to support your partner and possibly take a little weight off of your shoulders.

Supporting a partner who is struggling with depression can be a difficult and emotionally exhausting experience, but it is also an opportunity to show compassion and love to your partner which can bring strength to your relationship in the long run. By giving them your care and attention you can make a significant difference in their recovery journey. Remember to also take care of yourself and seek support when needed. Above all, know that you and your partner are not alone in this journey and that with patience, understanding, and persistence, you can work together to overcome the challenges of depression and build a stronger, more resilient relationship.

If you are in need of support, please contact one of our clinicians here at Life By Design Therapy. We offer online and in-person services for those who live in California. We also have a website full of resources for you and your partner to navigate this journey.

Beyond the Blues: Exploring the Impact of Depression on Your Life

By Melody Wright, LMFT

Depression, What Is It?

Depression is a serious (but common) medical illness that affects how someone feels, thinks, and acts. In general, depression causes feelings of sadness and an overall loss of interest in activities that you may have previously enjoyed. Depression impacts each person differently and may even look different at various stages of your life.  The length of time someone may experience depression can also vary from person to person; Some people may be able to overcome their depression within a matter of months while others may take longer. No matter what someone’s journey with depression may look like, it is important to be able to recognize the symptoms and the effects that it has on the body. Some of the symptoms related to depression vary from mild to severe, and can include the following:

• Changes in appetite

• Loss of energy

• Feeling fatigued

• Difficulty concentrating

• Feeling sad

• Trouble sleeping or too much sleep

• Thoughts of worthlessness, guilt, or suicidality

What Does Depression Do to the Brain?

While many associate only emotional or mental symptoms with depression, research states that it may also impact our brain. There is still much to be learned about the specific areas of the brain that are affected by depression, and how much they are affected. However, there is growing evidence that different parts of the brain may shrink, change in structure, and/or become inflamed in people with depression. These changes in the brain can lead to problems with memory, learning, and overall mood. Scientists are not yet sure if these changes have the potential to be permanent, but there is hope that treatment may help prevent or ease some of the changes that happen to the brain.

What Treatment Exists for Depression?

Treatment for depression can consist of different approaches, but primarily consists of two options, therapy and medication. Depending on what works best to address an individual’s symptoms, therapy and medication can be used individually or in combination as part of their treatment plan. The main therapeutic approaches for depression include:

• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) 

• Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

• Holistic and Somatic (body-based) Psychotherapy

Medications for depression, also known as antidepressants, primarily work by increasing chemical levels in the brain called neurotransmitters. These neurotransmitters are linked to mood and emotions. Antidepressants address different symptoms, and usually fall within the following categories:

• SSRI’s: Addresses symptoms of depression and anxiety

• Antidepressants: Addresses symptoms of depression and may help with other chronic conditions

• Anxiolytic: Addresses anxiety, tension, and may promote sleep

• Antipsychotic: Addresses symptoms of certain psychiatric conditions

When therapy and/or medication are used as treatment to address someone’s depression, research shows that it can reduce inflammation in the brain that was originally caused by depression.  Engaging in therapeutic interventions may also help form new synaptic connections in the brain that were affected by depression. This can help an individual experience a drastic improvement in their overall mood and energy levels. No matter what your treatment plan looks like, addressing your symptoms with therapy or medication can help begin to minimize the toll that depression can take on the body.

I’m Not Sure How to Get Started…Where Can I Get Help?

In order to properly address depression, it is important that you speak to your doctor, therapist, and/or psychiatrist to find the treatment approach, or approaches, that work best for you. For individuals who would like to explore taking medication, it’s important to learn the side-effects that may be associated with each medication, and understand that it may take time to find the right medication for their individual needs. If you or a loved one is currently experiencing sympthttps://www.lifebydesigntherapy.com/depression-therapyoms of depression, our therapists at Life by Design would be happy to connect with you and help guide the journey to healing and improved Mental Health. Click here for more information.